Often Awesome

Today the ALS Community lost yet another member. Tim LaFollette, Mr. Often Awesome, has returned Home. My heart is with his wife Kaylan. While I initially hid my condition for over a year, Tim had the foresight and steel balls to create the Often Awesome video documentary series so that the entire world can see his decline as he battled this disease from start to finish. This is "Tuesdays With Morrie" on steroids -- a very intimate and detailed look into the horror and hope that is ALS. Not only did it show the effect on a young man cut down in the beginning of his prime, but it showed the devastating effect on family, friends, and community. One person may carry the disease, but many suffer irreversible collateral damage. People have told me how brave I am. However, compared to Tim, I merely dabble in ALS. He had the A4V inherited version, the worst and most aggressive possible. Whenever I would feel down about my situation, I would think about Tim and how he dealt with even worse with a fortitude and grace I cannot contemplate. I would like to thank him for unknowingly lending me some of his strength. I never met Tim personally, only having worked with him over Facebook on awareness and advocacy projects. When I heard the news this morning I shed exactly one tear. I then decided to more properly honor his memory by continuing to live with ALS as he did, on my own terms. I also intend to honor Tim by winning my battle and, like he did, help others win theirs. Fuck ALS.